To help or not to help?

Did you ever have this feeling, that you really want to giv some advice to your friend, but dunno if it's suitable or not?

Maybe i'm not too dependable, so not many people actually talk to me when they have some problem. But still, somtime, when they do, I dunno what kind of advice i should give them.

All the advice i can give, are all positive thinking. But i also know that, not all advice are also suitable for all situation. for example:

advice A good for situation B, but not to B1, beacuse some small details that you need to consider.

confused?

here's a scenario...

Yong Fatt's GF "fly" him for another guy a few month ago, and being an ex-samseng (at least that's what he told me...), he say even though he won;t whack him, his "heng dai" will whack that guy for him.

so i told him "what's the point? either u whack him urself, or ur brother whack him, people will know YOU'RE the one who whack him... There's not wrong in love... summore last time u also rampas alot people's girl mah... kena "giu" 1 girl... cin cai lah..."

then he told me "I memang "giu" other people's gf, and i'm ready for them to whack me. it's thier problem that they nv do." ( Walau u so big size and so many brother who dare whack u?? not fair loh...)

I said "Then u also not need whack him loh. generous abit. show them the girl mean nothing to you."

He said "Sorry loh. i need face one... If people see i kena "giu" but never take action, they will look down on me one loh"

ANYWAY....

what i wanted to say that... i cannot give good advice... that's all i wanna say... =.='''

W900i... The End... =(

Okay i'm suppose to get my W900i on last saturday, which my friend promised. She asked me meet her at the Mc D opposite of sungei wang and we can finally get the phone.

Me and Yong Fatt reached that place, and we've waited from 5:30 till 7:30, and the guy who got our phone never appeared... =.='''

1 month of waiting and this is the result.. =.='''

In short, Yong Fatt got molested (by none other than muscle-loving Vivian... :) ), i'm phoneless, and Vivian RM2k less (which, according to Yong Fatt, she's bluffing...)... =.=''' lucky i never pay deposit...

So... any suggestion for any new phone model? :) Yong Fatt suggest L7, but i kinda still like that W900i... can't make my decision...

Namo Amitabha......

Nope i'm not dead yet... but my closest friend almost died... twice in this week... :(

sigh... dunno he make who unhappy lah... that time when i reach his house, i found him half dead liao... wah so scare ah.... after 1 week they told me he's fine... just some internal organ unrepairable liao... =.=''' wah after i heard that news i almost break down ah... A few years ago i met him he also got alot of problem liao... we've used 1 year time tried to solve his health problem, and i thought he was cured... sigh... They told me his health condition very bad liao... kena alot of virus that i cannot remember thier scientific name... =.='''

after they've treated him, of course i'm the one who fetch him back... we've spent the night together until 7am something... We've played, we've chat with other girls, we surf web together... :D... ah.... sweet, sweet quality time.. :)

anyway, after that night, i went back to my place to take a nap, and sleep until afternoon. i felt boring, so decided to find him and play. To my suprise, I found him breathless liao!!!!!!! OMG i paniced, and sent him back to the same place where they saved him before...

while waiting for them to see what's wrong with him, i started to think back how we met in selayang mall, the time we spent trying to cure him, the girls we chat together... games that we've enjoyed together, movies that we watched together... sigh.... dun wan think liao... make me wanna cry... :(

after a long day of waiting, they told me that he can be save afterall... lucky last time the part they implanted in him still got warranty....

CURSE the stupid thunderstorm that fried my computer's motherboard again... =.=''' next time gonna take great care of him liao... i still got alot of anime and porno not yet back up ah... =.=''' scare me like hell....

:D and that's why i didn't update my blog for so long... :D

another personality test...

You Should Be A Sagittarius

What's good about you: bold and adventure loving, life is one big party for you What's bad about you: you don't think before speaking - and you often regret it! In love: you're flirtatiously playful, but you never play games In friendship, you're: the one who keeps everyone laughing Your ideal job: fortune teller, philosopher, or athlete Your sense of fashion: your own mix of vintage and new pieces You like to pig out on: anything you haven't tried before

What Sign Should You Be?

woah... so true... but i like leo better leh... seems more fierce and pride...

好！非常好！YES!!!

Those who do/did/done Direct selling, might recognize that motto... That's what I heard whole night yesterday.

Yesterday night, Daphne asked me to go to this business course, which I dun really like, but wanted to do something more useful then sitting in home, read Chronicle of Narnia or yam cha with friend, so I decided to drag my lazy butt and attend the course.

After back from work, I have VERY little time to bath, change, then I have to rush all the way to Daphne's house to fetch her.... And like always, Sg. Buloh is JAMMED with cars... =.=''' Long story short, By the time we reach the hall, we were late for 1 hour... Luckily Dexter somehow knew that I'll definitely arrive late (yeah... I'm notorious for being late... EVERYTIME) so the time that he told us is actually 1 hour earlier than the course, and we are just in time to listen to the first word came out from that speaker's mouth...

After a few minutes, I realized that it's NOT a business course... It's in fact a LB (Lamp Berger) mind washing session!!!! OMG!!!! I kena tricked!!! Sigh... It's too late for me now... I was tainted by LB's idea and motto and everything... I just wish my friend will never leave me... Sob... :(

at least those are what I thought at first.. :) I kept an open mind and listen to what they have to say... Most of the stuff the speaker said are kinda true... Direct seller, in my opinion, are 1 of the most positive thinking person in the whole world... And some of the more successful Direct sellers profit has so many zeros that I actually lost count... =.=''''

I dunno how everyone look at direct seller, But I have much respect for them... At least respect to those who are ACTUALLY willing to work hard... Direct selling is a very cruel world... Either you put 110% of your effort in it, or else you gonna fail miserably... But for those we can bear the training, the tense and the suffering, you'll come out as a more confidence, successful, very GENG person...

that is if you can tahan all those hell training.. :)

I'm really interested in joining the direct selling firm to get rid of my lazy bones (Yeah... They've successfully Brainwashed me...) But deep down inside me, I still have doubt in direct selling... Deep down inside me, a voice telling me not to do it... I dunno it's the devil or the angel, but I'm gonna listen to everything first before make decision...

and yeah... We've arranged another meeting (and no... It's not all about LB... I won;t attend it if it's all about LB... We'll discuss some personal problem I have to solve soon... )

anyhow, after that brain washing session, I have to rush back to Sg. Buloh, drop Daphne off with her friend, and rush to another Yam cha session with Suki...

and to let you Rest your eye, there's a second part for this.. :)

-- To be continue --

好！非常好！YES!!! -- e.p.2

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Here's some prologue of how this yam cha session took place...

2 days ago, 12:45, while I'm sleeping, I was awaked by a telephone call... Unwillingly, I picked up the phone, and it's a girl that I never met.. =.='' here's the conversation (roughly... I was sleeping, remember?)

girl: Hey is this Ken?

me: *yawn... Oh yeah... whazzup?

girl: Haha... You doing what? I now at mamak alone woh... wan yam cha?

me: (WTF???????) Huh? Seriously?? (look at phone... No name...) uh... Who are u ah? Cannot recognize your voice leh...

girl: LOL... Call me "Wu Ming Shi" (no name) lah... How? wan yam cha? I very lonely lah...

me: (where got so big gap la (frog) fly around one??) Huh? Tonight ah? Cannot leh.. Tomorrow got work.. I have to sleep...

girl: come out lah... You can wake up tomorrow one lah...

me: (uh-huh....) hmm... Then you really alone ah? Got anyone else?

girl: No woh.... Really alone... So sien lah...

me: huh? No other leng lui ah? Then dunwan lah... Zzzzz

girl: aiyo got me enough liao mah....

me: (=_='' OMG I'm gonna get rape by her....) uh sorry lah today really cannot... Tomorrow I'll call you again yam cha lah...

girl: you say one ah! You call me tomorrow ah... I'm free on 11:45...

me: ok!! See you on tomorrow 11:45... BTW what's your real name? I need to save your name in my phone book leh..

girl: Mmmm... You can call me Suki.. :) See you tomorrow..

me: ok good night...

anyway, after that LB session, I've sent Daphne to her friend, who's waiting at a mamak store, then I go and pick up Hing Chun and Yong Fatt, and head to another yam cha session... After Suki gave the direction, we're back to the same mamak where I drop Daphne... OMG I'm damn embarrass that I almost wanna make some wild reason and go other place yam cha...

Unexpectedly, Suki IS Daphne's friend... argg.... There's some very awkward stuff happened between me and Daphne so the moment she saw my car... Damn the whole face changed... wah... I dunno how to react at all... God must hate me to pull this jokes on me... Bloody hell...

Everyone was surprised, because Suki and Yong Fatt knew each other before too... Daphne is Hing Chun's relative, and the whole relation on that table, very very complicated... Headache man...

ANYWAY, enough ranting... What's past was past... No use sulk in that unfortunate event... Yeah we've talked, joked, advised (for some reason all the girl I met recently all have problem... And with Yong Fatt around, they'll tell him their problem, and we sit there, listen to them council... =.='') And I went back at 2am (I think) that day....

oh yeah btw, i found out before that yam cha, Suki is another girl that he SMSed by using my phone... =.=''''

Movie Review: Lucky Number Slevin

Ok... I decided to try to write a movie review again... Last time I failed... =.='''

anyway, I've watched this film yesterday, accidentally... I wanted to watch shaggy dog or maybe ice age 2, but the seats are all taken... Bloody hell... Stupid people got nothing To do on Wednesday night... All go watch movie... =.='''

I've asked the ticket seller what he recommend, and he said this movie. Lazy to choose anymore, and that's the earliest movie we can watch, so I bought the tickets and go in the cinema...

I had no idea what's that movie is about... Totally clueless... So the first 30 minutes I just watch the movie, without knowing what 's going on...

But still, it's a great movie... Maybe at first I had low expectation, that's why I think it's a great movie. I figured that if you have high expectation, the satisfaction you got will get less... It's like when you espect your son to get an B, And he got a A, you'll feel happy, but not excited... If you expect him to get a C, and he got an A, think of the celebration you're planning for him.. :)

ooo off topic liao... =.='' Well, I'll try not to reveal any story, since even a bit can ruin the fun of this movie... The way the director play with the angle, is impressive... You'll be amazed even by the first scene, in the bus/ train station... The color, the angel.... Simply beautiful... :)

The plotting and the story is what attracted me... This is not a linear story line, which you have to pay attention to EVERY scene, which is quite hard to do especially you had NO IDEA what this story is about... But the director was kind enough to put back short reels to remind you previous scenes at the correct time, so you'll go "Ooo... So THAT's what happened..."

One of the best part of the movie was the dialogue... The dialogues are Intelligent, Unpredictable, confusing, AND funny at the same time... I salute the script writer... gonna go find that movie's script and read it... :D

This movie doesn't have any boring scene at all.. When it's not action, it's funny scene... And for the first time, I think Lucy Liu is cute... :D Song Yuan... This movie got Lucy Liu ah... Fast fast buy original CD and simpan loh...

Overall, this movie was so good, it made me write this review... So go see it... Go now... NOW!!!!

...Kansas City Shuffle...

The sun raised from west that morning! -e.p.2

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Woah... I've spent too long to update this story... Dun even remember how to start again...

Well, after that faithful Loft day, The whole gang decided to go and watch a movie... That movie is "Don't open your eyes"... It suppose to be a scary movie, but the director is Wong Jing (The director that worked with steven chow long time ago...) so we all expected it to be funny instead of scary... and we're right.. :) it's a very poor scary movie, but an average ghost comedy... :) it's worth your money if you have some spare time and you have no where to go...

ANYWAY, my point is... before we enter the cinema, Yong Fatt received a call from the jockey last time... He said he found the key, and asked us when we'll go and take. So after the movie, me and Yong Fatt went there and retrieved the key... they chat a while, joke around, and we're off...

On the NEXT day after that, Suk Ming said she want to go and drink some alcohol... She's having some relationship problem... So this time, 4 person gone to loft... Again... (Yong Fatt, Suk Ming, Daphne, and me)

That's 3 times I went to loft in 3 days.... =.='''

We've went there, let that same jockey parked my car, then we went in loft... This time it's not the same like my clubbing routine...

1. There's no bouncer... Not even 1... =.=''' I miss those muscular, abnormal large man... =.='' feel less secure without them walking around...

2. There's no noise... Just music... No customer, no Dancer, no blurred drunk chick, no nothing... Just us, the bartender, a few cleaner, and a few waitress... =.=''''

well, maybe because it's Sunday night, and everyone need to work the next day, that's why it's not the same as last Friday night... XD

anyway, due to the lack of people and mood, we just drink and chat... We've moved around a bit to chase off that bored feeling... Yeah anyway, when we almost want to leave, the jockey came up, gave me the key... They want to take early leave because lack of customers... We invited them to sit down and drink...

that's how we finished the bottle and made some friends.. :D

oh yeah.. The key was with another jockey... He parked the car, took out the key (for god-know-what reason), and went back home early... That's why we cannot find the key...

still, I'm glad that we've made some friends instead of enemy... :P

The sun rised from west that morning!

It's true!!!! i've seen it with my own eyes! i can't believe Bee Yam and Sze mun willing to go clubbing with us! i thought it's an early april fool joke...

On that unforgetable morning, Bee Yam SMSed me, asked me to go to clubbing with her friend... I was like Hiroshima atom bombed by USA, stuned and shocked... after drag a few friends more, we drove to Loft that day, and here's the participant:

Driver: Yong Fatt
Public Relation: Terry
The "COOL" Guy: Hing Chun
The Beuty: Sze Mun, Bee Yam
The Beast / The Extra Guy: Me~~~

It's a typical clubbing routine... except that we drink so little it scares me... can't even finsih half bottle... and we've ordered TWO bottles of whisky... =.='''

Everything went quite smoothly, except 1 thing... my lack of communicating skill really crushed my confidence and mood that night... can't make any decent conversation with anyone... sigh... really have to improve that ah... or else gonna be single for life... =.='''

did some very awful dance, made some boring jokes, dranked a pinch of alcohol and we're ready to head back home at 2:30am... dun scold me because we went home early... it's was friday night and i still have to work on the next day...have only couple hours of sleep...

THEN IT HAPPENED...

The jocky in charge of our car lost the bloody car key.... not the whole bunch of keys... they lost only 1 key... the ignition key... =.=''' spend countless hours searching for it (well, 2 hours to be exact) At last, Yong Fatt lazy to find anymore. He borrowed that jockey's STOLEN bike, asked Hing Chun to follow him back to SG. Buloh to take the spare key... and yeah... not joking with that stolen bike... Yong Fatt told me later that the bike dun have key attached to it... they hijacked it...

Anyway, while waiting for them to come back (Bloody duo never tell us they going back home to take spare key), Bee Yam's friend, Mun Soon and Laurence aka the party organisers, found out that the jocky lost our key... being a responsible hosts, they "talked" to the jocky, almost had a fight with 1 of them...

at first i envy they have the guts to stand up to them, help us scold them, despite of thier size, numbers, and that they are gangsters... but then Yong Fatt said another fact that i must agree too... they not steady enough... they don't really ahve to fight with them because of 1 bloody key... summore that's not thier keys either... They shouldn't pick a fight because of the diffrence in size and numbers, and we also have alot of girls follow us... thier action will put all of them in danger...

=.='''

ANYWAY, there's still second part to this story, but i'll post next time... dun even have time to eat lunch yet, and it's alraedy 5:17PM.. =.=''' To sum up this topic, We managed to go home at last, and after i reched home, it's alraedy 5.ooAM...

to be continue...