To help or not to help?

Did you ever have this feeling, that you really want to giv some advice to your friend, but dunno if it's suitable or not?

Maybe i'm not too dependable, so not many people actually talk to me when they have some problem. But still, somtime, when they do, I dunno what kind of advice i should give them.

All the advice i can give, are all positive thinking. But i also know that, not all advice are also suitable for all situation. for example:

advice A good for situation B, but not to B1, beacuse some small details that you need to consider.

confused?

here's a scenario...

Yong Fatt's GF "fly" him for another guy a few month ago, and being an ex-samseng (at least that's what he told me...), he say even though he won;t whack him, his "heng dai" will whack that guy for him.

so i told him "what's the point? either u whack him urself, or ur brother whack him, people will know YOU'RE the one who whack him... There's not wrong in love... summore last time u also rampas alot people's girl mah... kena "giu" 1 girl... cin cai lah..."

then he told me "I memang "giu" other people's gf, and i'm ready for them to whack me. it's thier problem that they nv do." ( Walau u so big size and so many brother who dare whack u?? not fair loh...)

I said "Then u also not need whack him loh. generous abit. show them the girl mean nothing to you."

He said "Sorry loh. i need face one... If people see i kena "giu" but never take action, they will look down on me one loh"

ANYWAY....

what i wanted to say that... i cannot give good advice... that's all i wanna say... =.='''