To love? To like?
phew... finally got my bloody modem liao... so much has happened since i last update...
but i won;t tell you ANYTHING!!! because i also forgot liao.. :P
anyway, first of all, congratulation to bee yam... got new boyfriend lioa ooo... nice butt.. :) so soft and tender... :DDDDDD
anyway, better back to the topic before i... er... off topic.. :) i tend to do that very often...
after past two very "unforgetable" event, i found out one thing...
many people tend to confuse the feeling of love and like... i think that is why now a days people keep switching partners gua (come to think of it, it's kinda like how aids spread right? u bang this girl, broke up, bang another girl, broke up.... =.=''' omg those leng chai leng lui play boy gonna hire hitman kill me liao...)
most of the time people who claim "love at first sight"... which i dun really understand at all... how can you "love" someone if you don't even know his personality, his taste, his hobby, etc? if you saw a leng chai, and you got attracted by him, is that love? os is that like? do you "love" him because of him? or do you "like" him because of his "appearence"? or his "first impression"? or his "flirt"?
i once saw an article, it stated that girl took very seriously at the first impression. when she think you're this kind of person, it's very hard to change her view again... i think that's why there are so many sad relation loh... how bad that the guy act, the girl will tolerate, and keep saying that's not the guy's true nature... she'll give him time to "come back"...
bull shit....
ALL of my friend who good with girls all tell me one thing... CHANGE YOUR APPEARENCE!!! go buy some expensive nice looking cloth, spent time gel your hair, dun diu so much, soft spoken abit, act intelligence and stop give dirty joke... in short, i must change... well, i do agree that some of the advice are very useful, but come to think of it, am i revealing who i am to the girl i like? should i fake it to win her heart? if i love her, and wanted to be with her for a long time, should i continue to fake it? or fake at first, get her heart, then revert back to the bad moth, always diu-ing, untidy ken?
after a few weeks of meditating before sleeping, thinking of the same problem ( i swear i floated a bit on my bed that night... =.='') i think i got the conclusion that i like... i should slowly try to improve myself, at the same time never fake or attempt to hide the true self... so what if i dun like to comb my hair? it's not like i'm going for a ball or something... for god sake we going to mamak lah... takan want me wear tuksedo meh?? if the girl i like only care about appearence, she doesn't deserve my love... well, like as friend still can lah... but love... no way man...
but of course, that's only apply to the girl i like leh... i dunno what i'll do if i manage to find the girl i love... sigh... see how lah... now i'm enjoying single life... those bad incident kind made me lose confidence in girls liao... =.=''
maybe i'll gay my friend again...
but definately i'm gonna stay away from sky... bloody ji bai dare to spit into my mouth... =.='''
diu......
4 Comments:
Haha! Interesting post! There was this quote.
"Life is just like a Beauty Contest. "
Which I conclude that people judge appearances ALL THE TIME and then your attitude/intelligence/talents in the end. You have to become someone you are not and fake yourself elsewise you will be deemed in an inferior position than people who can fake better.
So it's like a scene where we go out and then we saw this hot chick passingby we will try to compete one another who will be the one that attract that chick... :P
Cheers!
Didn't you hear what Vince Vaughn said in Wedding Crashers? Dating is tiring, with same routines.
to love or to like, care less ba. The world changes and so do humans. If you say the girls can't change the first thinking about the guys they adore, this is the similar way of how guys conceive of the girls should be typical like this and like that.
Humans live with pride and prejudice, you can't runaway from these instinct.
hey hey, i haven't announce my good news to the world but u ad posted it in ur blog.. haha... i am very happy now, might be because the relationship is still in the honey moon period =) anyway, thanks and good luck!! hugss..
ohmygod wk.. u grab byam's bf's ass.. anyway.. nice post..
correct. like n love is hard to differentiate. Love atfirst sight is nonsense too. There's only lust at first sigt. Love is when u learn to understand each other and u are still able to tolerate his/her negative side with patient and not expecting him/her to change substantially, then its love.
First impression is important in the sense that, if the guy is not attractive, who will even notice him? And attractive might not be looks... it can be intellectually attractive...
Anyway i think u r fine. no need to change.
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