Yin and Yang

One of my friend told me yesterday, that he never believe that fate exist. He believe that we are the one that creating opportunity, and Fate, is cause by our action. Then my other friend believe that Fate control us. Who you met, How you met, What you did, all was controled by fate. And both of them ask me, "What do y ou believe in?"

Took me only a few minuits to decide which side i'm with.

I believe that we control fate, and fate control us. hmmm... wait let me rephrase that. We and Fate co-exist with each other.

I believe that we are the one that control our action, and our action can alter the path of fate. We have the power to choose which path we'll follow, and We have the knowledge to know where will the path we chose will lead us to. That is why i said we can alter the path of fate.

But in another point of view, we also controled by fate. Our action, our ways of thinking things, our decision, ALL of them are affected by fate. Fate, can decide who we will meet, and that person might change the rest of your life. Every second that you're living, every decision u make, are affected by your personality, which are affected by the family you're born in, friends that you hang out with, teachers that you study under, etc etc... And faith is the "one" that lead you into them.

From what i wrote, it seems that fate is more superior, but no. We human have the ability change. We are more capable to change, if compare to other life form on earth. We're able to change the way we think, the way we act, the way we live. Most importantly, We, are the one who do the decision making. You can't say things like "Let fate decide." Fate only can lead you to the door. You're the one who choose whether to open it, or ignore it, or choose the next door.

Yin and Yang. Fate and Decision. Man and Woman. Love and Hate. Everything in this world are balanced. You get some, you lose some. You give some, you get some.

oooooo...... think too much liao... my brain cannot take it liao... =.=''' all this phylosophy stuff not suit me and my brain at all... =.='''